Boys Who Like Boys: How we date, love, and find fulfillment in the age of the internet

By Max Thomas

“Dating other guys is just so fun and so easy!” ...said basically no one ever.

But why is dating so hard for men who like men? Why do so many of us struggle to find happy, stable relationships? And does it have to be that way?

Backed by psychological research, personal stories and more than a few d*ck jokes, Boys Who Like Boys is the in-depth guide to gay, bi and queer dating we’ve long been waiting for.

Inside, you’ll learn how to overcome the common blocks that stop queer men connecting more deeply with each other. You’ll learn to figure out what you want in your romantic relationships and how to get it. You’ll learn why internalized homophobia is more like herpes than gonorrhea (and why it matters).

A profound but fun exploration of what it means to find love and fulfillment in the internet age, Boys Who Like Boys is our essential roadmap to better dating, a better community and more fulfilling connections.


"A rallying cry for all queer men to date, love and care for one another better.”
Vaneet Mehta, Author of Bisexual Men Exist

“Much-needed, highly relevant and thought-provoking ... I would recommend this book to any queer man.”
Thomas Smithson, LGBTQ+ Therapist

Paperback, 320 pages
Published by Earth Sign Books (Jun 2023)
ISBN-13: 9781739367909
Dimensions: 13.97 x 2.03 x 21.59 cm